In Our Bones & In Our Blood

Community Care & Mutual Aid Is Yoga

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I believe in the power of community. The word yoga means union, and while I support autonomy, and greatly value my ability to make decisions for my own care, I do not live in a vacuum. Nor would I choose to if that was even an option. Solitude and alone-time are vital to my well being, and this is where my practice of yoga begins. But community is equally vital to my well being and supports my growth as a human person in this lifetime. I choose a practice that honors and cultivates this yoga in a mutually, sustainable way.

Something that I am clear about, even though there is very little that I actually know, is that community has saved my life, over and over. As a person willing to continue to show up to and for community, in all of its beauty and messy discomfort, I will continue to be nourished, held, and cared for through and beyond this body's' final breath. When we care for ourselves, each other, and the greater collective of beings known and unknown, we all receive mutual, reciprocal benefit. This expressly includes the other-than-human beings, which make up most of our world.

Collective care for our fellow humans, plants, insects, animals, and spirit world is in our bones and in our blood. It may be buried so deeply beneath layers of binary, separatist, and hierarchical brainwashing that it is difficult to tap into, but it is there. People, like you, me, and us, want to and will continue to learn how to show up for each other with generosity, compassion, and curiosity becasue that is how we are meant to be and move in the world.

This kind of care asks us to take risks and allow space for discomfort. It asks us to move beyond the walls and borders of our own minds and hearts, and the kind of thinking that tells us our needs are more important or deserving than another's. Mutual aid means we all benefit mutually. Community care means the entire community is cared for by our decisions and actions. It does not mean we all agree, or are all happy all the time, but it does mean that we all have what we need not only to survive, but to thrive. As we give freely to each other, we receive more than we could ever imagine.  This is our yoga.
I must be continually reminded of my commitment to this practice, even though I experience the abundance every day.  The human mind is a fickle entity.
This world we live in is weird, and beautiful, and awful. It is full of love and compassion and it is full of hate and bigotry. If I want to transform the unjust culture in which we live, I must do the work in furtherance of my own transformation. If we are willing to be uncomfortable together, to inquire, and mess-up, and be compassionately accountable together, maybe, just maybe, there is a path forward for each and all of us. This is a continual, many lifetimes long practice, and one I want to keep coming back to however often I may falter.

Community care and mutual aid exists in kitchens, living rooms, street corners, playgrounds, bus stops, free markets, clothing swaps, and potlucks. It can be found in skill share workshops or when you freely offer to teach someone how to cook or install a ceiling fan. When you stop to say hello or simply make eye contact with a "stranger" who appears to be struggling, you are practicing community care. In order to thrive together, we must first acknowledge each other.

Mutual aid exists when we are willing to give up some of our own comfort in order to ensure more comfort or safety for another. When we are willing to speak out, instead of turn a blind eye to whatever inconvenient truth sits in front of us, we become part of the tapestry of life. Mutual aid is not charity, and it does not come from outside sources. Mutual aid is us - people supporting each other with no strings attached.

In the spirit of yoga, community care, mutual aid, solidarity, and transformative justice, we keep us safe. We keep us well. We keep us accountable and humble. Within this context we are responsible for navigating conflict, including harm and injustice together, in furtherance of transformation rather than blind punishment. When we move from a place of union (yoga), we acknowledge that we are all in this together.  Separation is an illusion of convenience and fear. By entering into a shared knowing, that we carry within us everything we need, and a willingness to share, rather than hoard, we become a powerful force that no government, military, or oppressor can destroy.

There are many ways to support each other in community as we move toward a more just and equitable world. Community care for the benefit of the whole breaks down barriers that capitalism and “business as usual” have created in order to keep us shackled to a machine that many of us don’t even realize has, and continues to cause immense harm. There are no simple answers, and I don’t presume to have the best solutions, but I can make a choice to be different and to make different choices, one breath at a time. What begins on the mat or cushion, eventually enters the bloodstream and gives structure to the way we be and move in the world.  I have an obligation to do my part if I want to live in a different world, and I invite you to explore along side me, what this means for yourself.

And so, dear one, I leave you with these questions:

How do you want to be and move in the world when the risks are real and rising?
What shape does your practice of yoga to take for the benefit of the whole?
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