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Sliding Scale Is Not
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a practice of solidarity and reciprocity
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based on honesty, accountability, and community care
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an opportunity to consider the difference between sacrifice and hardship
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a way to bring justice, equity, and humanity into a capitalist, classist, racist, and sexist system
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a discount or sales incentive
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a handout or charity
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a way to pay less for something you actually can afford
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monitored or judged by an authority figure when practiced within a framework of mutual respect, compassionate accountability, and community care
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meant to be easy or mindless
The Three Financial Commitment Options
Below are some things to consider when deciding which financial commitment feels best for you today. While it appears that the focus is on you in the bulleted statements below, please keep in mind that this is all about community care, which includes you (and me) as one member of the collective. The idea is not that every statement will be true for you in a given category or that will find yourself exclusively in one list or another. My hope is that by reading through these considerations, you will be able to self determine what feels right. Your choice of financial commitment will not be questioned. Within a culture of trust, honesty, generosity, and accountability, you make that decision for yourself. I trust you to decide, and I am honored to be in practice with you.
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Receive Assistance
Offer Assistance
This is the “true cost” of a program or service. It allows me to pay my business expenses and receive a modest income for the time, energy, and experience I bring when holding space for you and the community.We guarantee you an exceptional experience with flexible learning paths and professional guidance.
Consider The Standard Or Offer Assistance Options If You:
- are comfortably able to meet your basic needs such as food, housing, transportation, and health care
- have expendable income to regularly spend on luxuries such as restaurants, coffee shops, bars, concerts, movies, sporting events, in-home entertainment, new clothes, books, hobby supplies, and the like
- travel for pleasure and/or easily take time off of work
- own a home or ability to rent a higher-end house/apartment
- own or lease a vehicle
- have savings, retirement accounts, investments, or inherited money and/or have access to these resources in times of need through family or community
- work part time or are unemployed by choice, including unemployment due to full time school in a degree-earning program
- have a relatively high degree of earning potential due to formal education, class background, racial privilege, gender, etc., whether you currently choose to access this potential or not
This is an offer of assistance and solidarity with folks who are unable to pay the standard cost. Your participation is valuable, and I trust that you will select this option after honest consideration for yourself and the community as a whole.
Consider The Receive Assistance Option If You:
- have trouble meeting your basic needs such as food, housing, transportation, and health care
- have little expendable income for luxuries such as restaurants, coffee shops, bars, concerts, movies, sporting events, in-home entertainment, new clothes, books, hobby supplies, and the like
- have necessary medical expenses not covered by insurance
- qualify for public assistance programs
- are unable to find or keep paid work due to mental, emotional, or physical illness or disability, do not qualify for or are unable to apply for public assistance programs or government funded disability benefits, and do not otherwise have access to financial support
- do not have savings, retirement accounts, investments, or inherited money and/or have access to these resources in times of need through family or community
- have immigration-related expenses, experience discrimination in finding work due to immigration status or language barriers, or are unable to access public assistance due to immigration status when you would otherwise qualify
- are the sole financial support for children or other dependents and have limited financial resources
- are an elder with limited financial support
- are an unpaid community organizer, activist, aid worker, or volunteer with limited time for paid work and are not otherwise financially secure
- are returning from incarceration and experience discrimination in finding work, unable to accrue savings due to loss of income while incarcerated, or have fines/debt related to your incarceration
- are descended from enslaved people or Native American Indians (this is one small way for me to participate in reparations)
This option covers the “true cost” of a program or service, and supports the ability of Stable In Self to offer assistance to those who need it. A humble redistribution of wealth is part of the greater work of economic justice and solidarity.
Consider The Receive Assistance Option If You:
- resonate with several points above, and simply need more support at this time
- have significant debt that prevents you from meeting your basic needs such as food, housing, transportation, and health care
- are unemployed or underemployed for reasons other than choice, and have no or limited access to financial support from family or community
- do not have stable housing, are un-housed, or insufficiently housed for reasons other than choice
Contribution
In Gratitude
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Considering Your
Financial Commitment
When honored respectfully by all those involved, this system offers all of us to be compensated fairly. I am compensated fairly when you select the payment option that truthfully fits your financial reality. You are compensated fairly by being able to participate fully, while offering a reasonable financial commitment based on your life circumstances without judgement. We are all compensated fairly when we work together for the benefit of all beings by offering extra support when we can, and being willing to receive support when we need it. Ethically guided financial redistribution is a form of community care that helps all of us to thrive together.
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Cardamom (elettaria cardamomum)
Pippali (indian long pepper, piper longum)
Andrographis (kalmgh,
andrographis paniculata)
Fennel (foeniculum vulgare)
Shatāvari (asparagus root,
asparagus racemosus)
Cinnamon (cinnamomum zeylanicum)
Due to the hot and pungent qualities, it is pacifying to vāta and kapha and should be used with awareness and in appropriate combination so as not to aggravate pitta. Cinnamon can act as an expectorant, making it useful in alleviating sinus or chest congestion and is often used to treat colds, coughs, and the flu acting to burn toxins within the body.
Lavender (lavandula angustifolia,
lavandula x intermedia)
Licorice (yashti madhu, glycerrhiza glarba)
Tulsi (holy basil, ocimum sanctum)
Oatstraw (avena sativa)
Rose (rosa centifolia)
Slippery Elm (ulmus ruba)
Brahmī (gotu kola, centella asiatica)
Chamomile (matricaria chamomilla)
Ashwagandha (winter cherry,
withania somnifera)
Guduchi (tinospora cordifolia)
Wild Yam (dioscorea villosa)
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Vidari (alligator yam, ipomoea digitata)
Bala (country mallow, sida cordifolia)
Eucalyptus (eucalyptus globulus)
Amalaki (emblica officionalis)
Motherwort (heartwort, leonurus cardiaca)
Spearmint (mentha spicata)
Turmeric (curcuma longa)
Ginger (zingiber officinale)
Cumin (cuminum cyminum)
Coriander (coriandrum sativum)
Black Pepper (Piper nigrum)
Nutmeg (myristica fragrans)
Clove (syzygium aromaticum)
Ether
Air
Fire
Water
Earth
Summer
Spring
Autumn
Winter
Turmeric (curcuma longa)
Cumin (cuminum cyminum)
Fennel (foeniculum vulgare)
Cardamom (elettaria cardamomum)
Nutmeg (myristica fragrans)
Ginger (zingiber officinale)
Coriander (coriandrum sativum)
Black Pepper (Piper nigrum)
Cinnamon (cinnamomum zeylanicum)
Clove (syzygium aromaticum)
Sweet Taste
Sour Taste
In excess, sour taste can lead to heart burn, ulcers, hot flashes, liver and gallbladder issues. Overuse of sour can create a critical, manipulative, and judgmental attitude, and cause the mind to be agitated and hyperactive.
Salty Taste
Pungent Taste
Bitter Taste
In excess, bitter taste can weaken the kidneys and the lungs, cause dry mouth, bone loss, and osteoporosis. It can also cause extreme dryness and constipation. Bitter foods deplete the bodily tissues, especially fat and reproductive tissue, which can lead to emaciation, malaise, and unsteadiness. Because air and ether are both cold and subtle elements, overuse can create a feeling of coldness in the body-mind-spirit, and lead to cynicism, loneliness, and agitation of the mind.
Astringent Taste
Ether
Air
Fire
Water
Earth
Vāta Doṣa
Use of oil, especially warming oils like sesame or olive oil, in addition to butter or ghee are good for vāta doṣa. Since digestion is often quite sensitive for folks with a strong vāta constitution, portion size is an important theme.
It is best to avoid underwhelming or overwhelming the digestive fire (agni). Frequent snacking, rather than full meals is especially disturbing to vāta. Hard, dry, rough, and crunchy foods, such as chips, crackers, and popcorn are best avoided, and can have a negative impact on elimination, mental state, and emotional balance. Additionally, warm, cooked foods will serve vāta well, especially in the fall and winter seasons or in cold and dry climates.
Pitta Doṣa
For anyone experiencing excessive fire or inflammation, minimizing food in the pungent, salty, and sour category can be helpful, especially in the summer or hot and humid climates. If consuming animal protein, pitta should favor poultry over red meat and eggs, which can be overly heating.
Pitta tends to overeat if eating off schedule, as their appetites can be voracious. The term "hangry" can often be associated with pitta folks who delay or skip meals. Sticking to regular meal times is great preventative care for pitta. Including some fruit or vegetables, especially cucumber, between meals can be supportive when actual hunger exists.
Kapha Doṣa
Cooling, heavy foods, especially dairy should be avoided unless properly prepared with pungent spices in small quantity. Kapha's plate should have a predominant quantity of vegetables, some protein, and a small amount of grain. Drier grains such as corn, millet, buckwheat, or barley are best.
Kapha does well with rough, cruciferous vegetables like cauliflower, broccoli, kale, raw salad greens, and sprouts. Heavy root veggies are not ideal. Lighter protein such as meat from smaller birds can be favored, while heavy, oily meat is better to avoid. Legumes, seeds, and less oily nuts are good vegetable protein for kapha. Incorporating pungent spices and food into the diet is beneficial for folks with a strong kapha constitution.
If the digestive fire (agni) is really low or damp, it can be helpful to spread meals farther apart, and be sure to eat well before going to sleep.
Like increases like, and
opposites balance.
For example, if you have a bowl of cold water and you add ice to it, the water will become even more cold. If you add hot water instead, the water will first become less cold, slowly cooling the more hot water that is added. Soon the water becomes warm, and if you keep adding hot water, it will eventually become hot, which may or may not be what you want.
The idea is that by slowly adding the hot water to the cold water, or in the case of Kitchen Medicine, incorporating foods with hot or warming qualities if excess cold is an issue, you can ease your way back into balance.
When we are able to identify an issue, we can use the lens of the elements, qualities, doshas, or tastes as medicine by incorporating food, herbs, and spices with the opposite qualities of the issue. This can be as simple as noticing that your skin is dry and incorporating more oily, unctuous, and moist foods into the diet, while minimizing dry, rough, and hard foods.
We can also use this simple concept as the healing foundation for chronic health issues such as acid reflux, nausea, migraines, osteoarthritis, or systemic inflammation, as well as during acute illness such as cold, flu, or upset stomach.
Simple Qualities
Seasonal
Simply put, when it's cold outside, eat warm, cooked food. When it's hot and humid, bring in some cooler and/or drier foods. If we live in a very windy place (air element and vāta dosha), food with heavy, grounding, and stable qualities (earth element and kapha dosha) might be good medicine. Some of this comes naturally based on what is growing, and most of us tend to feel more excited about soups and stews as we move into fall, and cooler, lighter food in the spring and summer.
