Change & Change Again

We've heard it said many times, change is inevitable.

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But do we really believe it?  Do we truly accept this fact of life?  Do we even want to try to honor this divine constancy that everything changes, and changes again, over and over?  Is change good?  Is it bad?  Or, dear ones, perhaps it simply is.

Most of the time we cannot know if something is good news or bad news, and even if we think we know, maybe it's just what's happening right now.  Life happens, everything changes, and we never really know what lies ahead.  We turn ourselves into astounding contortionists, living in an illusion of control and the best laid plans.  But change dances through, turning it all around, over and over again.

Our every exhale changes the gaseous particles in the air.  Every sip of water changes the bodies internal chemical equation.  This satisfied body system is content after a lovely lunch, and in a handful of hours it will be hungry again. Day turns to night, and the moonrises differently with each turn.  Babies become children, and then adults.  Our bodies slowly and intelligently change and transform in preparation for death long before that final breath.

When I return to the coastal nature preserve near my parents in Virginia for a monthly or seasonal visit (or sometimes daily or weekly), the shape of land and water has changed.  The river bed that I visit regularly in central North Carolina changes every time I am there.  The desert, dry and hot with little to no rain for months, changes in a blink when the sky finally opens and land and beast are drenched in life giving water.

My life has changed, and changed, and changed so many times.  External circumstances, choices, actions taken upon me, gifts given, hearts broken.  So many births and so many deaths in nearly forty-six years of being in this lifetime.  The way I see myself and the many ways I have loathed and loved myself.  Friends, comrades, co-conspirators, and community.  People whom I've trusted became untrustworthy.  People with whom I judged harshly became friends when I was willing to allow the mind to change.  I've been in good health and very unwell and well again.  On and on and on, it will all keep changing.  This I can count on.  This I can trust.

Indigenous ways of being involve seasonal movement and the idea that we as humans, being of nature and not other than it, change along with the influence of the macrocosm.

Indigenous ways of being involve seasonal movement and the idea that we as humans, being of nature and not other than it, change along with the influence of the macrocosm.  The science of āyurveda teaches me that the word season refers to more than just winter, spring, summer, and fall.  There are seasons of life.  The phases of life I personally move through as I age and the seasons of change within the collective society and culture.

The dance of structure and flexibility allows me to be and move and change more ease-fully with the macrocosm.  When I am willing to change the way I practice, the way I organize, the way I be and move in the world, I begin to understand the power of change and the invitation that comes along with it.  The willingness and ability to adapt is what allows space for inner stability, within the constant mobility of change.  Being flexible and also committed, continues to save me.  It is what allows me to show up and hold space for others while also caring for myself.  

When I change the world around me changes, and when the world around me changes I change.  Octavia Butler poetically and poignantly expresses her understanding of the power of change in her book, Parable Of The Sower.  "All that you touch you change.  All that you change changes you.  The only lasting truth is change.  God is change." 

Questions For Reflection:

1. What changes am I resisting today?  What changes am I leaning into?

2. What might be possible if I acknowledge the changes around or within?

3. When I look back at changes from the past, can I identify things that were challenging, but lead to positive transformation?

4. Are there changes I would like to initiate?

5. What is preventing me from initiating change in my life?

6. How can I support and nourish myself through change?

7. What practices or tools have I utilized in the past to support me through change?

8. Who can I turn to for additional support as I navigate change?
Remember that one seemingly small, single act can create enough space for transformation to begin. Beginnings are often seen as insignificant to the outcome. But I offer that beginnings are the most essential part, and often the scariest. I assure you that more will be revealed, one step at a time.
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